Whether a wedding is child free or child friendly it is totally up to you. It is a very personal decision and a bride and groom should never feel they ‘have’ to invite children just because there are children in the bridal party. Just because you dote on a niece or nephew does not mean you have to put up with your beloveds work colleagues screaming monsters.

That said if you do decide to request the pleasure of everyone’s company no matter how little, MBS have put together some suggestions on keeping the youngsters entertained so you can enjoy your day safe in the knowledge the congregations little darlings are being looked after!

Hire Help – Not all wedding budgets stretch to Norland Nannies but there is help out there to fit every budget. Ask friends with Kids about there babysitters or au pairs or ask your vicar if any youngsters in the congregation could help – for some extra pocket money of course! Have a child friendly zone dedicated in the reception and let them play under a couple of watchful eyes.

Table Art – Paper table cloths and crayons! Simple, cheap and very fun! Pop in some glitter pens and the kids will be good to go!

Bubble Machines – What is it with children and bubbles? No matter how old, kids love bubbles, set up a bubble machine in the grounds of your venue and watch the kids go wild (chasing them will tire them out for later too!)

Entertainment Experts – Bring in the experts by hiring clowns or children’s magicians. Get them to sit down with the kids and teach them tricks and jokes but make sure you have an area set aside for this, you don’t want speeches interrupted by the sounds of squeaking balloon animals!

Outside Activities – If you are lucky enough to be holding your reception at a country house or by the beach utilise your outside space. Get staff to make up assault courses or ask your babysitters to take the kids to the beach to fly kits and build sandcastles.

Whatever you decide on your big day it will be fabulous with or without the little ones!

MBS x